Tuesday, October 16, 2007, 08:21 PM EST
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first off, i would like to honor the wounded vets here in tihis forum by restating that these thought are just my own and in no way are meant as the definitive "reality" of the war and
the rehabbing of soldiers. its just one man's experience with two severely wounded Marines that i mentor, one a double leg amp and one brain injured -- and this is the result of many late night phone calls and long soul baring sessions with me.
it seems for these two that BAMC and Walter Reed treatment was absolutely outstanding and superior, but once they were released into their smaller home systems, they were lost. the double leg amp has detailed three horrific years of being shuffled from doctor to doctor, with missing charts and doctors on vacation and no one listening as he handled muscle retraction on his stump by himself -- the bone pushing through the msucle - and no one supervising his meds nor his PTSD. He just now after three years got fitted for his second leg (he uses one and crutches so far) and only because a US congressman intervened - and the same for the brain injured Marine.
For me, it is two cases too many, and it is why I jumped into the mentoring trenches with these heroes. I would love to hear from my vet friends here in the forum as to their experiences and thoughts.
We hosted three amps and the brain injured Marine in LA this summer. It was a remarkable and also tough weekend. The first hurdle came as we took the guys on the set of BONES and hosted a lunch - the studio people actually called me and asked whether they should shake
the amputee's hand if he has a hook and where they should direct their eyes! Unbelievable!
But if those were their real reactions, then I am glad we took them and broke down some barriers. We did a Dodger game, they met Tommy Lasorda, and for the most part after the huge amount of staring - three amps and a guy missing part of hus skull create quite a scene -
everything was great. Jason Bateman from ARRESTED DEVELOPMENT came to one of the events (I did consulting on that show) and a good time was had by all. It was just an effort to say hey somebody cares.
That's it from here for now - I am working on a film project and will be out of the loop for awhile but look forward to catching up soon.