John


    Age: 39

    Location:
    Camden OH
    Your Disability AK left
    How long have you been an amputee? 2-5 years
    How did you become disabled? Accidental gun shot.
    What type(s) of prosthesis do you use? Otto- Bock & OWW
    About Me I'm a 38 year old amputee. You wont find me rock climbing or skate boarding because these are things I didn't do before. You may find me in the woods, on my roof, or doing any number of things I did before my accident.
    Music I like the early grunge rock. Pearl Jam, Nirvana, Stone Temple Pilots, Sound Garden, Alice in Chains. My theme song is Pearl Jams song "Alive"
    Movies Tomb Stone, The Three Amigos, Star Wars, Indiana Jones, Iron Man
    TV I like House, 24, AFV, Family Guy, Futurama,
    Likes Spending time with my wife and kids. Hot showers. Good haircuts. Old cars. Cool looking prosthetics. Jokes about guys with one leg.
    Dislikes Pity.
    Here For Friendships
    Relationship Status Married
    Orientation Straight
    Children Proud Parent
    Number of Children 3
    Body Type Athletic
    Height 5'10"
    Religion Catholic
    Smoke Yes
    Drink Socially

    when thing get you down

    Tuesday, February 19, 2008, 08:46 PM [General]

    When you think that there is something you would like to do, but don't think you can just watch this young man, Dustin Carter. At 5 years old he had all limbs amputated. He wrestles for Hillsboro high school here in south western Ohio. here is a link if you would like to see him wrestle. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zvxc8S5ybS4

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    Alone in my room.

    Monday, August 6, 2007, 09:13 PM [General]

    I've been asked to share my story. So here we go. March 1st 2006 at about 9:30 pm my pistol discharged as I was trying to remove a round that didn't properly eject from my XD-9. At this point I thought," no big deal, the bullet went right through." I couldn't have been more wrong. The bullet "tumbled" down through my leg and exited my calf. During its journey the bullet destroyed about 12 inches of my femoral artery and the nerves tucked away behind my knee. Sharon called 911. This is where God helped me out. The paramedics of my little village just happened to be at a meeting at the fire house 3 blocks from my house. They arrived within 5 minutes of the call. The paramedics began to assess the extent of my injury and quickly summoned Care Flight. The helicopter was already in the air after being called off of a fatality accident. Transportation arrived at 9:45 pm. By 10:00 I was at the hospital emergency room. At 10:10 I remember seeing my vision cloud and the last thing I remember was the clock on the wall. By this point I had lost about 2 liters of blood. Many things happened over the next 2 days none of which I remember. My wife had to make the decision to amputate my leg. Friday afternoon the doctors did what had to be done. At approximately 2:00 am March 3rd, Saturday morning, I woke up for the first time fully coherent. This was the point that I found out that my leg had been amputated. Alone in my room I woke up in pain. Not screaming pain but there is something wrong with my leg pain. I turned on the light and pulled back the covers to see an incredibly swollen stub all wrapped up in wound dressing and gauze. It was the most depressing moment of my entire life. I spent about 2 hour in self pity wondering how I was going to be able to go on and provide for my family. At that point I made the decision that I would not give up or give in. I was in control of my life and I wasn't about to let something like this stop me or even slow me down. March 4th I told the doctors I wanted to be unhooked from the IVs. They did as I asked. I began to get myself out of bed on my crutches and take care of myself. I did push ups on the floor in the hospital to keep my strength up, which I got in trouble for by my mom. March 6th they closed up my open wounds, (which they had left open to guard against infection) and later that evening disconnected me from my IV again. I was ready to go home but they weren't ready to let me go. The people caring for me at the hospital felt that I was to upbeat. They thought it was just an act. I had to convince them that I wasn't going to get home and blow my brains out. I went home March 9th. The pain was horrible for the first 3 or 4 weeks but me and vicoden got along just fine. On April 18, the day before my 37th birthday, I took my first steps with my test socket. April 29 I took my leg home. After 8 of the 22 rehab appointments, Jim my PT guy told me he couldn,t do any more for me. I went back to work June 3rd, light duty, but it wasn't long before things where near normal as can be. I helped coach my sons football team. Now here we are today. I'm happy and have some good new friends. I'm a test patient for a prosthetic company. I'm trying to design a new foot. I have started my own electrical contractor business with my brother and 1 good friend. Things are good. I feel that I got off easy compared to some people. I didn't have the pain and emotional hardship leading up to my amputation. The gunshot didn't really hurt. The most painful part about it was the position I put Sharon in to have to make the decision to amputate.

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    Hey John
    Thanks for your comment.
    I notice you are above knee. Its a little harder to run with above knee but can be done...just has to be a bit different
    I looked at your photos...Liked the t shirt
    some assembley required..lol..I feel like a borg sometimes..too...
    Stay Frosty
    Rod

    Rod
    June 26, 2008
    04:26 PM CST

    This one's just for you....:)
    ALIVE
    Son, she said, have I got a little story for you
    What you thought was your daddy was nothin' but a...
    While you were sittin' home alone at age thirteen
    Your real daddy was dyin', sorry you didn't see him, but I'm glad we talked...
    Oh I, oh, I'm still alive
    Hey, I, I, oh, I'm still alive
    Hey I, oh, I'm still alive
    Hey...oh...
    Oh, she walks slowly, across a young man's room
    She said I'm ready...for you
    I can't remember anything to this very day
    'Cept the look, the look...
    Oh, you know where, now I can't see, I just stare...
    I, I'm still alive
    Hey I, but, I'm still alive
    Hey I, boy, I'm still alive
    Hey I, I, I, I'm still alive, yeah
    Ooh yeah...yeah yeah yeah...oh...oh...
    Is something wrong, she said
    Well of course there is
    You're still alive, she said
    Oh, and do I deserve to be
    Is that the question
    And if so...if so...who answers...who answers...
    I, oh, I'm still alive
    Hey I, oh, I'm still alive
    Hey I, but, I'm still alive
    Yeah I, ooh, I'm still alive
    Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah


    Pearl Jam

    Cali
    May 11, 2008
    04:26 PM CST

    John,
    Thanks so much for sharing your story and your positive attitude. Your are a great inspiration as to what one can accomplish with a good attitude.

    Gerald
    February 25, 2008
    03:09 AM CST

    What's new John? how's everything bee on ur end? done anything exciting? Just figured I'd stop by and say hey, and catch up. talk to you soon. :)

    jimmy
    January 11, 2008
    07:04 PM CST