James

    1 year Anniversery

    Tuesday, July 22, 2008, 09:43 AM CST [General]

    Well it has been one year today when my life got permenantly changed.  One year ago I became an amputee.  I don't know rather to be happy or sad that it has been a year, but I guess I am grateful either way.  The alternative would be that I would not be here with you, my wonderful friends. 

    It wasn't much of a decision when the doctor tells you that you can get the amputation done or not and if not you will be dead within a few months.   When you think about it that is sort of a no brainer.  In a humerous way I tell people that I wasn't ready to make my wife a rich woman that quickly. 

    Looking back over this last year I came to a few realizations that I would like to share with you"

    1.  Life is truly precious in all forms and we should all be humbled by it.

    2.  I truly love my wife.  We have become closer because of all this then we had ever been in the past 13+ years of marriage.  This year we have much to celebrate on our wedding anniversery.  Last years anniversery was celebrated in the hospital a week after my surgery. 

    3.  The statement "Whatever doesn't kill me, can only make me stronger" is true beyond any words of description.  We have been through hell and not only survived but we have thrived.

    4.  I treasure my new friends that I have on here and Josh in particular for helping all of us and letting us help each other through what we have gone through.  Thank you my friends and especially thank you Josh.

    Well I will stop being mushy now and say once again thank you my friends for helping me through this last year of change.  I hope we will all be on here for many years to come.

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    Much love and support on your anniversery.

    Lisa McD
    July 22, 2008
    09:55 AM CST

    Hey James,
    What a blessing bro. You've come a long way and there's no stopping you. You definitely have what it takes. We're all extremely proud of you and dude you really inspire us. Let me thank you for all you do and will continue to do.
    Happy Anniversary

    Ben
    July 22, 2008
    01:13 PM CST

    Hi James,
    All you say is true, in August it will be 11 years for me, I am usually a little down at that time, but each year I just keep telling myself, it was the year I survived a terrible accident.I am a still struggling after all this time, so I think you have done remarkably well in one year, and you are certainly an inspiration to me and others.

    Take Care,and happy anniversary
    Charlotte

    missmoody1shoe
    July 24, 2008
    09:28 AM CST

    Hey james,

    I won't say "happy" anniversary, but I will say, "Way to go!". You seem to have handled the challenges that have come your way in style. Much success in all your future endeavors!

    Gary
    July 29, 2008
    03:52 PM CST

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