Lynn-saaaaaay

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    Monday, January 14, 2008, 11:36 AM [General]

    A week ago * almost* i posted about how there was a support group and that i was going to ge. well i went.

    first off i was the youngest, no i was the youngest one there. and im not talking youngest by a few years, im talking DECADES! lol. not to be rude. but the next closet person was at least 3 decades older than me, and i was a little uncomfortable with the fact that everyone there could have been my parent, grandparent or in one case my GREAT grandparent.

    but it was good for me. everyone had stories to share about life and how its been for them and how they have dealt with life as an amputee. i thought i was going to be the one whod been an amputee the longest because of all the amputees i no, i am! 17 years is a long time and i thought i had *won* that award.

    well i was wrong. the really sweet guy next to me had been an amputee for 53 years, an the lady across from me had been on for 60! that was and is quite a long way off from mine.

    so it was good for me, and i enjoyed it. the only part that was hard on me was being the baby, literally. so if there are any support groups in your area, go to them. it might benefit you more then you know.

     

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    That's funny! I'm 33 in two days, and I'm the youngest one who shows up for the support group at the rehab...lmao... I do get some good info there. But noone does the things I want to be able to do ( hike, snowboard, ski, waverun, camp...name it!) So I'm not really getting what I want out of that particular one. Now the prosty shop I go to has a thing once a month that I haven't yet gone to, that does stuff like that. next month there hosting an amputee snowboarding day. I can't wait for that one. They also do some day hikes and such too. But keep it up if it works for ya. how's everthing else?

    jimmy
    January 14, 2008
    01:15 PM CST

    Lynn, sorry for the drastic generational gap. That's usually the case with these types of groups. I think we could all could benefit from talking to someone who has been an amputee for 53 years because we go through physiological and lifestyle changes as we grow older. I think we all could gain from the wisdom of old timers who have been amputees most of their lives. Because face it, we may be young now, but we will always be amputees and will have to go through those stages of life just like they have already. I was 16 when I lost my leg and I am 36 now. Something I learned this year is that going through the physiological changes associated with growing old is much harder as an amputee. This has lead to my realization that keeping fit and healthy is even more important than it is for most people.

    Rich
    January 14, 2008
    02:13 PM CST

    Hey girl, glad you scoped out the support group. I actually used to go to one of those back when I was still living at home in Virginia. It was called "Branching Out on New Limb." Haha. Anyway, I was like you, BY FAR the youngest person. Mostly everyone was a senior citizen. My parents liked the group a lot, and they still talk to some of the people. And I know that it helped them to have someone with youth/energy/undeniable good looks such as myself in the group.

    Josh
    January 14, 2008
    11:14 PM CST

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