I have ridden motorcycles in one fashion or another for around 20 years. Until this accident I had only been involved in one other wreck, and it was minor.I had gotten so used to having to watch out for myself that I no longer even noted the avoidance manuvers I was doing on a daily basis to watch out for "cagers". In spite of the accident and the resulting injuries I still yearn for the day that I can climb aboard one again. I still have my Harley, but it will be gone, sold, within the next week or so. My Honda was a complete loss, as torn up as I was...just not insured for replacement. I know that watching my hog go down the road is going to break my heart.
My wife was learing to ride, but since the incident has torn up her license and refuses to have anything to do with a bike. Until recently she couldn't even look at one w/o crying.
She has asked me to be done with bikes forever. She cannot bear for me to put myself in a position to be injured this same way again. I know in a sense she is right. I survived what should really have killed me. Getting back on a bike again is just playing with fate I know. And in spite of it, every time I see one on the road I feel that yearning. I miss the lifestyle, the wind in my hair, the carefree feeling. I haven't been on one yet of course and really don't know if I wouldn't be afraid once I was there. I feel I need to mount up and see. She has in essence told me that if I do she will kill me herself.
I know that if I wait a few years I may be able to convince her, but am having trouble with knowing if I even should. Perhaps this was my wakeup call to be done with them.
How many of you injured on a bike have or want to ride again? How has the experiance been for you? your spouse or sig. other?




I used to ride some years ago but not lately. Have wanted to ride again, wife is not sure about it. Big problem I have at the moment (besides the amputation) is that I need a very large helmet. Have been looking at Ridley motorcycles or the possibility of getting a thumb shifter. Wife just sighs at me when I start talking about motorcycles.
James09:04 PM CST