Martin

    If a motorcycle brought you here....

    Sunday, December 2, 2007, 05:30 PM [General]

    I have ridden motorcycles in one fashion or another for around 20 years. Until this accident I had only been involved in one other wreck, and it was minor.I had gotten so used to having to watch out for myself that I no longer even noted the avoidance manuvers I was doing on a daily basis to watch out for "cagers". In spite of the accident and the resulting injuries I still yearn for the day that I can climb aboard one again. I still have my Harley, but it will be gone, sold, within the next week or so. My Honda was a complete loss, as torn up as I was...just not insured for replacement. I know that watching my hog go down the road is going to break my heart.

    My wife was learing to ride, but since the incident has torn up her license and refuses to have anything to do with a bike. Until recently she couldn't even look at one w/o crying.

    She has asked me to be done with bikes forever. She cannot bear for me to put myself in a position to be injured this same way again. I know in a sense she is right. I survived what should really have killed me. Getting back on a bike again is just playing with fate I know. And in spite of it, every time I see one on the road I feel that yearning. I miss the lifestyle, the wind in my hair, the carefree feeling. I haven't been on one yet of course and really don't know if I wouldn't be afraid once I was there. I feel I need to mount up and see. She has in essence told me that if I do she will kill me herself.

    I know that if I wait a few years I may be able to convince her, but am having trouble with knowing if I even should. Perhaps this was my wakeup call to be done with them.

    How many of you injured on a bike have or want to ride again? How has the experiance been for you? your spouse or sig. other?

     

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    I used to ride some years ago but not lately. Have wanted to ride again, wife is not sure about it. Big problem I have at the moment (besides the amputation) is that I need a very large helmet. Have been looking at Ridley motorcycles or the possibility of getting a thumb shifter. Wife just sighs at me when I start talking about motorcycles.

    James
    December 02, 2007
    09:04 PM CST

    hi martin,
    i too have suffered a motorcycle wreck on 6/6/6 it cost me quite a lot. although i had minor wrecks in my 10 years or riding. my last one by far took the trophy. (cant remember what happened though i still draw a blank 1.5 yrs later) One of the verses of the Quran reads, "The pens have been lifted, and the inks are dry" referring to destiny. A few yrs ago, my uncle was crossing a street with his three daughters, was hit by a driver and killed. 4 months after my accident, my cuz slipped between a train and platform and lost her right arm. these are very graphic examples to what im trying to say. Personally i think whats gonna happen is gonna happen. we just happened be on our bikes at that time...so thats that.
    i had a Honda 959RR most recently. BEAST to say the least. and out of my wheelchair or even my hospital bed, every time i even hear the exhaust note from a bike i get a chill up my spine and my fingers (even though they can't seem to work) tighten around an imaginary throttle! I miss the feeling. not the air in my hair, not the insane acceleration, but the tarmac rubbing against my knee guard. Even if i do get on a bike, that feeling can never be experienced. i'm a bilateral aka and can barely use my hands. but i truly believe "all for the best".
    Here are two possible options i think about. check em out if u got the dough!
    c ya round man
    still_kickin
    the first one is a trike but not a conventional one...u can get the wind in ur hair, but not lean. thats y the second one is soo mind blowing. and with both u get some kind of crumple zones...


    Abe
    December 02, 2007
    09:04 PM CST

    What's happenin' Martin? I'm Jimmy. I suffer from the same thoughts. My wife and I met because of the Harley. She what they call the "biker Bit$%" LOL...She said she can't get back on right now because the free felling is gone now. I however want to get back on as soon as possible just to get back at the guy who hit us so he doesn't take that away from me. However, I have a 7 year old son who I don't want to get hurt and leave him parentless. I'm sure you can understand that. I will however buy my 2003 Road King Classic, and I will ride in charity events, back country roads. But in response to your thoughts. GET BACK ON!!! Just like our chopper buddy said. I can't wait to have that first ride. I can feel it my soul already! A buddy of mine has a Road King with a heal shift so I can shift it with my prosthesis. No need for any customization! Just like everyone else! Good luck with everything my friend.

    jimmy
    December 03, 2007
    10:02 AM CST

    Hey Martin,

    I have been riding and racing for almost 30 years. I ended up with an LBK amp about 13 years ago after a crash on my way home from work one night. Funny thing for me is that I never considered not riding again. I guess because you have to know the consequences every time you throw your leg over the seat, and those consequences are worth it to me. I've had somewhere between 25 and 30 different broken bones, many of those more than once, plus tons of surgeries to fix various things I've messed up. Those are from multiple crashes over the years, and each time I was back on the track or the road ASAP. We had this saying at the track long before it was made into a catchy t-shirt slogan, "It's not IF, but WHEN, and how bad.". Now obviously you can minimize the consequences by riding responsibly, wearing high quality saftey gear and things like that...but you aren't gauranteed anything. That's just a fact. But if you get back out on the road, and find yourself waiting for the "other shoe to drop" (slight pun intended), it's probably going to take away a lot of the reasons you enjoyed riding in the first place.

    Over the years and various times laying in the hospital, plenty of doctors and nurses read me the riot act about how dangerous motorcycles are all that sort of thing. But they only see the few bad results, they don't understand the reason most of us ride. My family, past girlfriends, and now my wife don't even question me about riding because they know what a huge part of my life it is, and they know I understand the consequences better most people on the planet.

    So with that novel written, my advice is to get back out there ASAP, and the little voice in your head will let you know whether it's a good idea or not.

    Kris
    December 03, 2007
    10:31 AM CST

    i want to first say that i love the fact that you are still so passionate about the bike riding. it shows thatyou really care about it.
    its sad that you lost your foot doing something that you ultimatley love. its a shame that something that use to bring you and your wife joy, now is subject to bringing you pain.
    i also want to say that a number of people have lost there limbs to certain things, and they keep moving on. this isnt really a comforting point, but you could get in a car accicdent and lose another limb, or the same with getting cancer or diabetes.
    you cant keep living life in the shadows because an accidnet happened. i have been an amputee for 17 years, and never once did my mom not tell me to do soemthing because i might hurt my other leg. that is that point of life, to grow and become stronger.
    best wishes

    Lynn-saaaaaay
    December 03, 2007
    11:40 AM CST
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