pam


    Location:
    milwaukee, Wi (not by choice)
    Your Disability no right leg/left leg is a PFFD
    How did you become disabled? birth defect/42 yrs
    What type(s) of prosthesis do you use? currently no prosthics/use a wheelchair
    About Me I born with my missing right leg and half of a left leg (PFFD). I never felt different because i was expected to do the same as an able bodied person. I never considered myself an amputee since i was born with the missing limbs. Doesn't matter if your born this way or become an amputee later in life, we are all the same Amputees and should be proud of that fact and to not let the world look down upon us as cripples.
    Music celtic. 80's, sarah mclaughlin
    Movies what dreams may come, city of angels, american history x, the antwon fisher story, and of course disney and comedies.
    TV Law and Order SVU and CI. TLC channel and discovery health, Army Wifes
    Books anything by V.C. Andrews and anything about the holocaust
    Likes I like people are honest and try not be someone they aren't
    Dislikes people who stare, point and make comments even though they don't know anything about you.
    Hobbies rubber stamping and being active in my childrens life.
    Vices i'm head strong at times, but i try to be loving and caring to everyone i know. I put other first and me second.
    Virtues my children have never been ashamed of having me as their mom even though deep down i know it had to hard at times.
    Heroes my grandma, my mom, my aunt Marge, my best friend Tabitha, my husband and my 2 daughters
    Here For Not Specified, Friendships
    Relationship Status Married
    Orientation Straight
    Children Proud Parent
    Number of Children 2
    Body Type Not Specified
    Height 5'0"
    Religion Not Specified
    Ethnicity White / Caucasian
    Smoke No
    Drink No

    Food For Thought

    Friday, December 14, 2007, 10:09 AM CST [General]

    I am only one,
    but I am one.
    I cannot do everything
    but I can do something
    And I will not let what I cannot do
    Interfere with what I can do
             -Edward Everet Hale
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    Hi All

    Wednesday, December 12, 2007, 08:54 AM CST [General]

    Hi to all, i wish you all a wonderful holiday season,

    Winter has arrived in wisconsin, we have had snow or freezing rain almost every other day.  Due to my amputation i don't go out much for the fear of falling.  I know i no longer wear my prostetics i still fear falling and breaking my little leg which is weak.  I do get around in public by using the electric scooter (that a friend gave me because my insurance would not pay for one) or wheelchair.  But due to my shoulder problems i'm unable to lift the wheelchair, so i need someone to go out with me.  For me the winter is the hardest part of living in the midwest.  I dream of no snow and ice in the south.  someday that will come true.

    I was wondering if there were others here who are afraid to go out in the snow and rain?  Is it because your afraid of falling?  Hurting yourself in falling?

    I wonder if these questions are just my fears or are others like me.

    Happy Hoidays, Pam

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    Thanks for writing back!

    I try not to dwell on my amputations that's all. The parts aren't gonna grow back! However, I can get angry sometimes; especially when I screw something up with my hook, or accidently pinch one of my grandchildren, or can't pick up something on a slick floor.

    I'm from Atlanta. We have an occassional light snow and sometimes an icestorm. While I'm not crazy about hot weather, I really don't like the snow or ice for more than a day. I'm sure it's doubly tough for you.

    Hang in there! Maybe someday you'll move south!

    Thomas

    Thomas
    December 14, 2007
    10:08 PM CST

    Hi,

    Sounds like you've really got it together. Congrats on the great looking kids. Hope you escape from Milwaukee!

    Thomas

    Thomas
    December 11, 2007
    11:29 PM CST