Mike


    Age: 51

    Location:
    Melbourne, Australia
    Your Disability RBK
    How long have you been an amputee? 10-20 years
    How did you become disabled? Motorbike crash
    What type(s) of prosthesis do you use? Ummmm, socket, post and foot ones?
    About Me The time where I am is:

    Melbourne

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    Got pretty badly mangled when a young guy sped through a stop sign and cleaned me up off my motorbike when I was 22. 16 years later after being in pain all the time from my mangled right foot that the doctors had "saved", I managed to find a sympathetic surgeon who cut it off for me. Things were going fine and I was even able to run on my good days. Now my left hip has decided to play up and I am spending most of my time in a wheelchair! If this is the onset of old age, I'm not taking it too well!!!! ;-)
    lessthanfour.org/sn00py
    Music Developed my tastes in the 60's, 70's and 80's so tend to prefer those decades, but will listen to the 90's and naughties if there is some sort of beat and not just noise....
    Movies Ummm, True Lies through to Disney cartoons... I go for the journey that the film maker takes me on, and get disappointed if the film turns into a waste of 90 minutes!
    TV Rarely watch it.
    Books Read heaps as a kid, but it tends to be just technical journals (and websites) these days
    Likes Getting to know the "real" person behind the facade that is usually created and presented to the world. Developing friendships based on trust which allow for communication at more than a superficial level ~~~
    lessthanfour.org/sn00py
    Dislikes The way that life has sped up! With more and more automation and gadgets to give us more leisure time, we seem fixated on filling that time up with as much "stuff" as we can!
    Hobbies Travel; Photography; People; The Internet; ~~~ Trying to setup websites, such as: Baby Boomers community
    Vices I've got this really nifty one that you can clamp onto a table and.... oh I guess it means the other sort of vices! ;-)
    Here For Friendships
    Relationship Status Married
    Orientation Straight
    Children Not for Me
    Body Type Average
    Height 6'1"
    Religion Not Specified
    Ethnicity White / Caucasian
    Smoke No
    Drink Socially

    Woo Hoo it's 2008!

    Tuesday, January 1, 2008, 02:08 AM AEST [General]

    Happy New Year everyone from this side of the planet!

    May it hold all the things you might hope that it could.... And perhaps some even better bits!

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    'Tis the season...

    Saturday, December 22, 2007, 10:26 AM AEST [General]

    Well another year is rushing to an end, and the "festives" are upon us all.

    Some will be enjoying this time of the year with their families and friends, others may be travelling life's journey solo. Regardless of whomever else is around you this festive season, be kind on yourself!

    If you've been dealing with pain all year, may you get at least these few days so filled with joy and good cheer that you forget the pains that have been tormenting you.

    If you're dealing with a new found set of abilities which are far below what you thought you should have or had previously become used to, may you make the mental and emotional adjustments and also learn that it is okay to ask for help sometimes.

    If your ego is still bruised and battered and you are either still angry at the world, or stuck in "poor me" mode, may your bubble quickly burst and you learn to just get on with it! Deal with what's happened to you and find a way to adapt and adjust.

    If you can't, no one else is going to do it all for you! If you've been pushing people away from you because they can't possibly love the gimp that you've become, know that they can probably see more of you than you see when you look in a mirror. Take a moment to reflect and know that appearances are not everything. The inner person is still the same!

    If you are pre-amputation, or the family or friend of someone who has recently lost a limb (or 2, or 3, or 4), just know that if the amputee is adaptable by nature, they will soon adapt. Read some of the profiles here and be inspired! I know I am inspired when I read about and see the likes of: Amy, Melissa, Susie, Josh running on one leg, Dancing on one leg, etc.... Nothing seems to slow these people down!

    So, may all your stockings be filled with delights, the faces about you be bright and smiling, and your find peace, contentment and acceptance within yourself...

    And above all else, may your Santas all be a whole lot jollier than the one in this pic! ;)

    For those of you in the northern hemisphere, enjoy your cold temperatures and possibly snowy days all rugged up and enjoying a roaring fire! For the rest of us in the southern hemisphere who are suffering through days on sun drenched beaches wearing little more than a thong and a smile, may you find a banana lounge to take a load off and get to relax for a while! Whether you're shivering, or trying to find some shade and a cool breeze, may this festive season give you some of the best days of your life so far!

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    Thanks for the comment Mike. it IS a process
    :)

    cheryl
    January 06, 2008
    03:43 AM AEST

    Hi Mike: Thanks for the words of encouagement. Very interesting that you bought your home after your amputation. That gives me hope that I can persivere these stairs. That is what I am hoping for.

    I have given thought to a left foot gas pedal. And that was my one concern, that in an emergency "would I find the brake pedal quickly". I am guessing that we can train our brain to do something if we want it bad enough.
    By the way, I love your home/bio site.

    Again thanks for the information.

    Linda
    January 02, 2008
    07:39 AM AEST

    Thanks Mike, that helps a bit.I have concidered having the leg broke and straghtened. Lately I think I have just missed running I use to love it.

    Joey
    December 30, 2007
    02:47 AM AEST

    thanks for the comment you left on my pic

    merry xmas

    valerie

    valerie
    December 24, 2007
    12:28 AM AEST