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    desiresluvin
    Your Disability upper arm amp
    How long have you been an amputee? 2-5 years
    How did you become disabled? work-related
    What type(s) of prosthesis do you use? dont have one yet
    About Me I am a very independant Lady who has a soft heart.I do volunteering with people who are mobility challenged(we go bowling)and we do lots of things. I am trying to implement a wheel chair maitenence program for them and food service industry for us to create community kitchen ,therefore they can still feel like they are independent among other thins I am trying to help with.I also tutior people who need ESL classes( volunteer)we also help new entries to country get adapted. I am also on the homeless advisory board.I want to build a stronger support system for all who need/also have ideas on helping others with in home functions, plus have idea for easier clothing for amputees.found my feet are an asset. can now cut hair with toes, hold pot handles with feet, shave with toes. and other funtions. my ex boss cut arm off trying to prevent others from learning truth to why I screamed , he reached into my shirt and as to cover his actions, he shoved arm into 1944 turner splitter, 2..700 pound rollers pulled me in. lost two feet of hair, hearing left side,migranes, and far more..but I am alive and every day gives me a chance to grow on personal level.Enjoy every moment as it is a gift to treasure,
    I am a machinest, welder,did construction, roofing, carpentry,Psw(personal support worker, have tried many trades,at time of injury was supervisor in automotive company worked 97 hours per week. work addicted . miss working. but it was lifes way of saying time to start living .I am determined to regain my life and feel more productive, right now discovering who I am and what I can be.
    Music all but not Rap or heavy metal
    Movies anything which makes me jump. romanitic chick flicks, sappy movies, disney,action movies.
    TV CSI, Law& Order. Kitchen Nightmares. anything to do with law. soaps sometimes. comedies, and a few other programs.
    Books all criminal law, mysteries, bios.. CNN.luvs to read.
    Likes luvs to challenge myself dailylaugh lots,learning is my passion ,besides helping others., very energized type person on all levels.
    Dislikes those who judge without seeing my abilities.those who have sick ideas about amputees.misleading types. and other things.I refuse to take any pain medications,
    Hobbies wood work, racing a car at deleware raceway here, boating,dancing.hope to get back to hand gliding, parachuting( will do again) skating,swim. go to gym 5 days per week now,bowl monday nights, writing a book.cooking,
    camping,mountain, repelling climbing,hiking, skating,and lots more
    Vices one handed can opener ( great item.)
    Virtues be honest to yourself, be own person, respect self, at end of the day just be you
    Heroes my kids

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    frustrated, and broken hearted

    Saturday, October 27, 2007, 11:54 PM [General]

    Another rough day here. workmans compensation are degrading, make you feel as if they are doing you a favour, hard to explain,Every time I try to get straight answers , just more run around.I cant understand why they continue delays. support is no where for me it seems,I see the wall and seem to hit them lots,( hey that where bruises come in)

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    Welcome to the site! you will for sure find the support you want here!

    Jasmine
    October 28, 2007
    3:30 AM
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    I like your attitude! I'm still finding my way around here like you are. From what I've figured out so far, your blog entry is in the right place for things about yourself. If you want to add your support for others who may need it, do that in their blogs, or in the many Groups . How have the kids adapted to your bodily modifications? Rachel would probably like to hear all about that so she can help her sister.... Enjoy yourself among new friends....

    Mike
    October 28, 2007
    9:46 PM
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    Welcome to the site, I think you have done the right thing. I hope you are getting the support you were looking for there are alot of great people on here. Sometimes just being able to talk to people who understand makes me feel better. Sounds like you have a great attitude, Thats half the battle. I hope things go well for you. Take care and stay positive.......Dave

    Dave
    October 29, 2007
    6:55 AM
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    welcome to the site. I know u will be able to help many and in return get the help u need. Ur attitude alone will be so helpful. Glad to have u in our wonderful community. Take care.

    Ben
    October 29, 2007
    12:19 PM
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    Welcome! You sure have been through a lot. I hope that ex boss is no longer a boss to anyone. It seems you are one busy mom! I'm a student and have 2 children and barely have time to keep up with this site. How do you do it? If it's support your looking for, your definately in the right spot. Good luck and welcome aboard :)

    valerie
    October 29, 2007
    1:57 PM
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